Thursday, 25 November 2010

Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh?...
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?" BUT...
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or may
damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER
works. and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
*Curiosity & *Self Interest And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' So...
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. But more importantly...
Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Make sense? Have a PLAN!==>Magic Of Making UP
Rooting For You,
T Dub

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