tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60793519165437919422024-02-20T15:59:31.817-08:00ITS THE MAGIC OF MAKING UPIts The Magic Of Making Up By Dawn Hay| Relationship Advice | Break Up Advice | Reconciliation |Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-80873693653481026242012-01-16T05:27:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:30:54.238-08:00Another Fresh Start ......<blockquote class="tr_bq"><b>“Another fresh new year is here . . .Another year to live!</b><br />
<b>To banish worry, doubt, and fear, To love and laugh and give!</b><br />
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<b>This bright new year is given me To live each day with zest . . .</b><br />
<b>To daily grow and try to be My highest and my best!</b><br />
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<b>I have the opportunity Once more to right some wrongs,</b><br />
<b>To pray for peace, to plant a tree, And sing more joyful songs!”</b></blockquote>...William Arthur Ward<br />
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<a href="http://www.staged.com/video?v=irv">MAGIC OF MAKING UP</a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-53986816202915984892012-01-14T03:53:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:29:51.871-08:005 Steps To Exorcising Your Ex How To Get Rid Of The Demons Of Relationships Past<pre style="white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"><b>It can be difficult to get over your past relationship. Memories of your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend can haunt you for months or years after your relationship. You need to work on getting over this relationship. Follow the 5 steps to exorcising your ex. "How to get rid of the demons of relationships" is a difficult topic to fully understand. These 5 steps can help to show you the way to success.
Stop Any and All Contact
The first step that you must take is to stop any and all contact with your ex. You may have an ex that likes to call you or text you. You may actually be the one calling and texting your ex. This line of communication needs to stop in order for you to get over your ex. This communication will simply be a reminder of a broken relationship, and will lead to nothing but heartache.
Build a Support Group
The next step that you must take is to build a support group. Talk to your family and friends about your situation. They will be able to help you stick with your goal and steps as you work on your own emotions. These friends and family members will be able to be there for you when you feel weak and vulnerable. Use their support to stay strong as you get over your ex.
Acknowledge your Feelings
The third step to this process is to acknowledge your feelings. You cannot ignore what happened to you. You cannot forget the relationship that you had. You need to cope with the feelings that the end of this relationship has brought on. Talk to your support group about your feelings. When you open up to your support group, you release your emotions. The more you acknowledge these feelings, the faster the entire process will be.
Get Them Out
The final step is to release these emotions. Each person will have a unique way of dealing with these emotions. Some will choose a hard workout or a boxing regimen to deal with their anger. Others will write in a journal to cope with their sadness. Find a way to get your emotions out. You need to get them out in order to get over your ex.
You need to have the willpower to follow these steps. It can be difficult to follow these steps, as some of them completely remove that relationship from your life. It is important to understand that you are only hurting yourself by ignoring these steps. At first, you will have to force yourself to follow the steps to exorcising your ex. How to get rid of the demons of relationships past steps will be worth it in the end.</b></pre><a href="http://www.staged.com/video?v=irv">MAGIC OF MAKING UP</a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-83199099709631030142012-01-02T05:22:00.000-08:002012-01-02T05:32:50.899-08:007 EFFECTIVE TIPS To HELP SAVE MARRIAGE 7 EFFECTIVE TIPS To HELP SAVE MARRIAGE<br />
Do you realise that nearly 60% of marrages Fail ! Ya hit me too when I saw those stats. Many couples are looking for answers and dont want to become one of those stats.....so please continue <a href="http://onlinehomeworkinfo.info/archives/category/the-magic-of-making-up" target="_blank">Click Here</a> and Put in to affect today 7 great tips to not be one of 60%.Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-37344374020044061432011-12-12T12:05:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:29:02.093-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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Ideally you should read a few books on relationships in order to get the full picture but I will try to give you a snapshot now. You need to treat the woman in your life with respect. If you are living together, then do not expect her to do everything around the house. Sure, she may be a better cook than you are but that doesn't mean that you can't do dinner some evenings. Or you could let her cook but be the one to set the table and tidy away afterwards.
Some men appear to have a gift for instinctively knowing how to treat a woman, for the rest of us it can be a little more complicated. At least it was until I read up on some techniques. My girlfriend was amazed. In fact it almost backfired as she thought another woman was teaching me how to behave! Not the result I was hoping for but thank goodness once I showed her my latest reading material she believed me. In fact she was very impressed I cared enough to be trying to learn new skills. Seemingly I hadn't been showing I was interested in our relationship prior to this. I thought I was doing everything right, I took her out to dinner, brought her flowers and some jewelry but according to her I had forgotten how to listen. And that is more important than my over the top gestures!
Obviously it will depend on what the situation is with your relationship. If you are asking how to be nice to your girlfriend you are obviously worried that you are missing something. Why not try sitting down with your partner and asking her how she is feeling. Ask her if she is happy or is there something wrong? Some women like gestures whereas others, like my girlfriend simply wanted my attention but to talk not to do other stuff! I found out that women like to chat even if there is nothing important to say. They actually enjoy talking to us and listening to our views so long as we also listen to them. But they hate when we try to fix every problem. Just because they tell us they are having an issue at work or with a friend, doesn't mean that they want us to solve it for them. They may just want reassurance they are handling the situation properly by themselves. They may simply be using you as a sounding board.
If you want to still be together when you are old and grey, you need to learn how to communicate properly. Then you won't be wondering how to be nice to your girlfriend. <a href="http://www.staged.com/video?v=irv">HOW TO TRAIN YOUR MAN !</a></b></pre>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-26464400810838786252011-11-18T03:51:00.000-08:002011-11-18T03:52:54.516-08:00Rachel Crow - Top 10 - THE X FACTOR USA 2011<b>This Little Girl Is 13 Years Old and she has Charisma of any Super Star !! </b><br />
<b>Watch Her Performance Now >> <a href="http://www.staged.com/video?v=wJ3">CLICK HERE</a></b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-16900340713718555552011-11-18T03:29:00.002-08:002012-02-21T10:22:22.970-08:00Saving A Relationship 3 Tips For Doing So<b>Whether you've recently broken up, or you're afraid you're on the brink of a breakup you can take heart, saving a relationship is possible. You can reignite the flame that the two of you once shared. It won't necessarily be easy or fast, but if you're committed to making it work there is hope. <br />
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I've compiled a list of some of the things you need to do to salvage and repair your relationship. Keep these tips in mind when you are analyzing your relationship:<br />
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1. Do you really want to stay in the relationship? I know this may sound like a dumb question but sometimes when we think we want to keep our relationship what we really mean is that we're afraid of having to find someone new, or starting over. If you're brutally honest with yourself you can determine if you really want to continue the relationship or if you're just scared of being on your own. <br />
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Another part of this question is to determine if your partner really wants to work on the relationship too. Even if you decide that your relationship is worth saving, that doesn't mean your partner shares your conviction or will be willing to invest the time and effort to work on your problems. <br />
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2. Honestly evaluate what went wrong in your relationship. Again, this will need to be done by both of you. This can be the hardest part, it's always easier to blame someone else for the problems but it's tougher to own up to your part in the break down of your relationship. <br />
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Before you can repair it you need to know not only what is broken but why it broke. The two of you may even want to visit a couples counselor to help you objectively work through this phase. Sometimes having an objective third party in the room can help you both stay calm and face things you may not have been willing or able to face on your own. <br />
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3. Try to remember what drew you to each other in the first place. If you've been in a relationship for a while you obviously loved and enjoyed each other. So often in a relationship what happens is that the 'stronger' one (or the most selfish one) controls the relationship. They become the one who tends to take more than they give. The other partner will take on the role of the giver. Over time the 'taker' will get bored because the fun loving person they fell in love with has become a doormat and the 'giver' will get sick of not getting their needs met often enough. <br />
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If your relationship has fallen into this trap you both need to take a step back and remember what attracted you to each other. This might be a good time to not only remember but to tell the other person. Remind them why you fell in love with them, and vice a versa. <br />
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Saving a relationship will take time, work, and commitment by both parties, but it can be done. If you think your relationship is worth saving and your partner thinks so too, than by all means, follow the tips above and you can salvage your relationship.</b> <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP</a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-16589091082290151182011-10-30T14:30:00.000-07:002011-11-18T03:46:48.471-08:00Cher Lloyd sings With Ur Love on X Factor - The X<a href="http://www.staged.com/video?v=NLv#.Tq3B7He7chs.blogger">Cher Lloyd sings With Ur Love on X Factor - The X</a><br />
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uphill battle ahead for you. If you are like many, you have reached a point in <br />
your life that you realize that things might have been better for you if you had <br />
taken that other path. You thought the grass was greener on the other side and <br />
then realized that it was an illusion. You realize that the love you had a long <br />
time ago may be what you are missing. Here are some things to think about when <br />
you want to win back lost love from long ago.<br />
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First, make sure that there is nothing in your life right now that may missing <br />
out on. The mistake you may have made in the past was that you didn’t take <br />
advantage of the opportunities that you had at that moment. Make sure that you <br />
don’t make the same mistake again by missing out on something potentially good. <br />
If you hate looking back and thinking what you may have missed out on now, try <br />
to prevent it from happening again. It’s better having love now and to not have <br />
to try and win back lost love later because you were too blind.<br />
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Second, realize that they may have moved on. Just because you are discontent <br />
with your present and are longing for what could have been with the love from <br />
long ago doesn’t mean that they are. You could cause yourself and them more <br />
harm than good. If they are happy and content, let them be. If they have moved <br />
on, it’s a good sign that you should and not be concerned with winning back <br />
lost love.<br />
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Third, understand that people change over time. Things may have happened in <br />
both of your lives that may have made you very different people. Don’t do <br />
this to try and relive what once was. Try to win back lost love because you <br />
believe that your future will be better than your present and even your past <br />
with this person.<br />
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Fourth, start off slowly. If they aren’t expecting you to come calling and <br />
all of the sudden you are there constantly it may smell of desperation. You <br />
may be desperate and be somewhat obsessed about them but don’t let them know. <br />
Take your time and don’t let them know how badly you want them back, at least <br />
not for a while. Take the time to get to know them again and for them to get <br />
to know you. <br />
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Lastly, think forward, not backward. What matters now is moving forward. <br />
You can’t relive the past but you can make a future with this person. As <br />
much as you may want to go back in time, you can’t. You lost it because <br />
one or both of you didn’t make the most of chances you were given and <br />
you are doomed to repeat it if you don’t take advantage of today. If you <br />
have a chance to start this love over or win back lost love, <br />
make the most of the moment.<br />
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is full of ups and downs, and most of the downs are the result of a misunderstanding. So when you are <br />
trying to figure out what went wrong, here are some clues as to where men get the wrong message and <br />
end up backing off. <br />
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Many men back off for a reason that seems counter intuitive. By trying too hard to please the guy, <br />
serving his every need, in the end you are selling yourself as a doormat in his eyes. The idea is <br />
to be respectful with who you are, and how you sell yourself. That is not to say you should be dominant, <br />
but that you should say that being someone who is respectable is how to get my boyfriend back. Men do <br />
like to be treated well at times, but they want women who can standup for themselves. <br />
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Another thing that will send them away is to talk about your ex's. Men are competing when they are dating. <br />
They are thinking of the other men who are potential competitors to their efforts, so when you mention <br />
other men in your life you are giving them something to compare against. Again, this is not to say you <br />
should not say anything. Background and personal history is important. Knowing that you dated one man <br />
throughout high school and college is important. Telling your date that he is a football player with 20 <br />
awards, his game stats, where his tattoos are, etc. is too much. Focusing on one ex will sell the idea that <br />
either you still have feelings for him, or if it is all negative, you will cause your date to over analyze <br />
themselves.<br />
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Business like behavior, or conversely being too promiscuous, will work against you. The general ideal is a <br />
lady like or feminine behavior. Too much on the skin side can work against you, but being boyish will also <br />
push away prospects. You should be feminine, conservative, and someone who is not cheap or intimidating.<br />
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Pressuring him is another turn off. This includes trying to get him to define his role and analyze who he <br />
is and how he feels. Men tend not to like having their feelings challenged, and if he has an idea that is <br />
proven wrong, then it can send him packing.<br />
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Another thing to send him packing is to try and change him. You can't. Men think that being steady means <br />
that you want him for him, so trying to change him is going to tell him he has a serious problem. Even if <br />
he does not have a problem, trying to change him will challenge his feelings and strip him of who he is. <br />
Let him be him. If you need something else, find someone else. <br />
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No one is perfect, and no relationship is perfect; but when you are trying to figure out how to get my <br />
boyfriend back, these are steps to make sure you do not scare him off. <br />
</b><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">Magic Of Making Up</a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-66122152219075603572011-02-14T13:30:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:20:36.891-08:00How To Get Back My Ex When Im Devastated.<b>A breakup is a devastating event which can leave you emotionally wounded. <br />
You know that things can be made to work and you are now trying to figure out <br />
"how to get back my ex?" Breakups are not irreparable events which are the <br />
absolute end of things. There are things that you can learn and use to try an <br />
get your ex back, but it will take work and time. Here are five such things <br />
to know about.<br />
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First, you have to let go of all of the pain and move on. This is a difficult <br />
step, but you should instead try and think about the fact that letting go will <br />
bring them closer to you. This is not to say that you should shut everything out. <br />
You need to experience these feelings in order to move on, but you cannot spend <br />
too much time on them, otherwise you will hinder your own progress. Tell yourself <br />
that moving on is how to get my ex back and it will be easier to do so. <br />
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Once you have left the feelings behind you, you should figure out why it happened. <br />
What you should be thinking is that how to get back my ex involves knowing why we <br />
broke up. If there is a problem behind the breakup, then knowing of it will lead <br />
to fixing it. Once that happens, you can get them one step closer to being back <br />
with you.<br />
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An important step in the healing process is to extend each other a break. <br />
Separation is required in order to get back to a point where the two of you <br />
can move on and do what is needed to set things right. Those who spend time <br />
with no contact among each other are most likely to get past the breakup <br />
and get back together. <br />
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You should also spend the time to call upon the support of those around you. <br />
Ask others what they think in terms of "how to get back my ex?" This can <br />
include your parents, siblings, friends and more. Not only can these <br />
individuals provide support for you as you experience the emotional <br />
turmoil of a break up, but they can also act as your calm head, your <br />
sensibility, and they can mediate things between you and your ex. <br />
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Once you each have your support networks, you should come back together. <br />
A meet up is the final step in the process of getting back together. You <br />
should proceed slowly, first by emails and text messages. Keep your tone <br />
friendly, for any sign of moving forward too quickly can be detrimental. <br />
Enter into the meet up with a game plan, so that you do not get hurt. <br />
Prepare to suck it in and apologize for yourself, and not expect the same. <br />
The point is to rekindle the romance, and this is the step where you will <br />
see if it is possible to know "how to get back my ex." Following these <br />
steps will make for the best chance, but be prepared to accept staying <br />
separated. </b><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">Magic of Making Up</a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-73326772193194356142011-01-19T10:34:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:19:39.749-08:00Getting Over Break Up Steps of Recovery<b>Are you getting over break up right now? Do you hurt so bad that you feel like your heart is going to explode? Do you want to see the other person one minute and want to kill them the next? That is all par for the course when you are getting over break up.<br />
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Just as there are stages of grief when mourning someone who has diet, there are also steps that must be taken when getting over break up. One woman whose first husband died and second husband divorced her said that it was actually easier getting over the death of a husband than it was recovering from divorce. That is because there’s societal support when someone dies, but you are supposed to go about getting over break up on your own.<br />
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The first thing you should do is sit down and write a long letter to your ex. Pour out your heart. Share the experiences you had together. Tell him or her why you loved them. Put on paper how you feel about the break up. Call them names. It’s okay to emote in this letter because no one is ever going to see it. That is because you are going to light a candle and burn the letter over the candle’s flame. There are not many rituals that go along with breaking up, but this one can help you on the road to emotional recovery.<br />
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Next, you need to arrange to exchange stuff. If you have been in a relationship of any length, you probably have some stuff of his at your place and he’s got your things at his. You probably want much of this stuff back and he or she is equally eager to get theirs. Work out a time for a mutual exchange.<br />
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If there are things of your ex’s that aren’t going to be exchanged, either box them up or throw them away. Don’t leave your ex’s toothbrush lying around the bathroom because it will only remind you of them as you are trying to go about getting over break up. <br />
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It is also a good idea to box up any gifts your ex gave you for a time. Wearing a watch that your ex gave you will make you think of them every time you check to see what time it is. That’s just not a good idea when getting over break up.<br />
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There are sometimes financial matters that need to be straightened out when getting over a break up. If you owe your ex money, try to either pay it off from your own funds or get another loan to pay it off. If you have a checking account together, work out how you are going to divvy it up and then go to the bank to close it.<br />
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What you should be seeing is a pattern of closing out the parts of your lives that you shared. This is essential to getting over break up.<br />
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After you have done what is necessary, agree to have no contact for thirty days. This will allow you to start building separate lives. You shouldn’t call, text, email, or meet the other person during this time. You may even want to agree that some places such as a specific bar or even a given church “belong” to one party or the other during this month long period.<br />
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After you have had time to begin building a separate life, you will be able to interact more normally once again. This is a difficult time, so give yourself the space you need in order to go about getting over break up.<a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">More Relationship advice</a></b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-37609626239079386892011-01-11T12:57:00.000-08:002011-01-11T12:57:03.526-08:00Things I ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me<b>Okay, I’ll admit, I’ve been dumped. More than once. More than I’d like to admit, actually. And, while it hurt quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have grown from the experiences. So, here are some things I’ve learned from women who ve dumped me.<br />
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Things I’ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #1: It takes two. <br />
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Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the problem. Evaluate what went on so that you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.<br />
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Things I’ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #2: Give women their personal space.<br />
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Women like to cuddle and snuggle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their personal space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We want to keep tabs on where they’re going and what they’re doing there. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key component in a relationship. When you invade her personal space, you send the message that you don’t trust your girlfriend. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.<br />
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Things I’ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #3: You get stronger over time.<br />
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When you wake up in the morning and the hurt’s so real, you may believe that you will never get over the break up. But the truth is that not only does time heal all pain, but you will emerge from the break up a stronger person. As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche said, “that which doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger.”<br />
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Things I’ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #4: It’s okay if it wasn’t meant to be.<br />
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Coming to accept that a relationship wasn’t meant to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future – considering marriage, thinking about children – and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing. It is better to end a relationship that wasn’t meant to be earlier rather than later.<br />
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Things I’ve Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #5: Good things don’t happen unless you make them happen.<br />
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Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that you can’t control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what happened. If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen.<br />
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That means getting back on the horse. Go out, meet new women. Have some fun. Eventually, you will find another relationship. And, if you have followed the advice in this article about things I’ve learned from women who ve dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-65891952255345858272011-01-05T13:19:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:18:35.043-08:00Can I Save My Marriage – Its Up To You<b>It is depressing to see many marriages that are in turmoil, and it is especially disconcerting to see them end up as messy divorces, so you may ask how can I save my marriage? Filing for divorce is not the solution for when a marriage has hit its pushing limits. There are a number of solutions that require that both partners to be fully committed in saving the relationship that they have. The first step is counseling, which enables the couple to have a mediator in dealing with their issues.<br />
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In addition to professional services, there are a number of different things that can be done to save a marriage, it is not a complicated process and does not require much outside of both parties working towards the common goal. Below are four things that you can take to heart and utilize to "save my marriage" and improve the odds of successfully avoiding divorce. <br />
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First, know that the perfect marriage is a myth. Whenever two people are brought together, there will be problems, including the few that can grow into deal breakers in your marriage. This is a natural result of bringing two people together. Even perfect twins differ in likes and dislikes. For the marriage to succeed, the couple must learn to deal with the rough patches and overcome their problems. Seeking perfection will only destroy everything. People make mistakes, work with your partner and overcome the problems you face, and you'll realize it is possible to "save my marriage."<br />
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Second, good communication is vital, for when the communication is insufficient; the marriage is doomed to face problems. The most vital thing is to be honest with your partner. Just about every issue and problem can be solved if communication is maintained. The third tip is to accept compromise. Many have made this an art, with good reason. The middle ground that will enable a conclusion to the conflict has to mesh with both parties and their interests before it can "save my marriage." Marriage on a whole is about compromise and knowing that there are times when your spouse will have to give and times when you have to give in order to "save my marriage."<br />
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Really, a marriage is about commitment, the fourth tip. Like a car, if it breaks down, you don't abandon the car on the side of the road. The only time you do get rid of the car is when there is no hope. Saving your marriage involves the same level of commitment and working towards making things work, if you ever have a chance to "<a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">SAVE MY MARRAGE </a>"<br />
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Sometimes, the damage to the marriage totals it, and no matter what you do, nothing can change it. Some issues cannot be solved, counseling cannot help. It is in these cases that divorce makes sense. Out side of these cases, divorce is not the answer. Instead, you should work with your partner to solve the issues that plague your marriage, and hopefully you will be able to say that you can <a href="http://bit.ly/dv7He7">"save my marriage."</a></b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-52263208732964131942010-12-09T10:54:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:18:11.941-08:00Advice on Relationships How to Keep a Woman Happy<b>Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Here is some advice on relationships for men.<br />
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The first advice on relationships item I have for you is to always be yourself. Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show. But a confident man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.<br />
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Next, you should do the little things. This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time. Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up to long relationships.<br />
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This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her. You shouldn’t take her for granted. Let her know that you value her.<br />
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Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her. Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.” This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children. They can’t help it. That’s how evolution designed them. So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.<br />
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You should try to make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.<br />
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The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests. It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers. If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.<br />
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Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her. You can unland her just as easily.<br />
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She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make an effort.<br />
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You should always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.<br />
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The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.<br />
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So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn't pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T 'Dub' Jackson called "The Magic Of Making Up". After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.<br />
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You might want to check out yourself.<a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">"The Magic of Making Up"</a></b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-3120352148696820462010-12-06T04:47:00.000-08:002010-12-06T05:04:30.656-08:00-------BREAKING NEWS--- NOW Conected To---MY SISTER BLOG-------<b>Reports,Reviews,Articles,Stories-Dawnsuzanne.@@@@@ HOT NEW SOFTWARE REVIEW:<br />
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steps that you can follow to have more success than if you just wing it and hope for <br />
the best. Breakups happen, but they do not necessarily have to be forever. Here are <br />
five steps that will allow you to subtlety let your ex girlfriend know that you're <br />
still interested in being a fixture in her life, so that you can potentially rekindle <br />
things in the right away.<br />
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5 - If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back, start by reaching out <br />
and touching her. Playing too hard to get is not the best way to approach this, <br />
though communication should be scaled back. Reach out to her and let her know subtlety <br />
that you are still interested in being a part of her life.<br />
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4 - Drop her an e-mail to keep in touch. If you do not find casual, easy going methods <br />
of communication with your ex, you will never be able to get her back. Staying in touch <br />
is absolutely vital, but keep it to casual messages like "Hey, what's up?" rather than <br />
overwhelming her inbox with love poetry.<br />
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3 - If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back, stay away from other girls. <br />
Sure, she may be understanding enough to let it slide if you begin to peruse other <br />
"prospects", but if you want to get your girlfriend back, stay away from other ladies.<br />
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2 - Remember the important things. Part of learning how to get your ex girlfriend back <br />
means treating your girl like a princess. One of the easiest ways to do this is to show <br />
her that you care by remembering the most important anniversaries and dates in her life. <br />
Send her a card on her birthday, and let her know you're thinking about her in a harmless <br />
and positive way.<br />
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1 - Call and text, but use discretion when reaching out to her. You should not be afraid to <br />
send your ex girlfriend a text message, or drop her a line here and there. Uncertainty is <br />
something that should be avoided in life and love, so call her up and let her know what's <br />
going on so that she knows where you are and what you're doing, and doesn't have to imagine <br />
that you're out having fun without her, or with another woman. Let her know you care, and <br />
that you still think about her. If she knows she's still in your thoughts so frequently, it <br />
will contribute heavily to how quickly she will want to rekindle things with you.<br />
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There is no exact process or science to the process of learning how to get your ex <br />
girlfriend back, but there are some pretty clear cut suggestions out there that will steer <br />
you in the right direction. Obviously maintaining contact and communication is absolutely <br />
vital to the rekindling process, but do not over do it, otherwise you may scare her away.<br />
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These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I <br />
followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I <br />
turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.<br />
<br />
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called <a href="http://"><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">"The Magic Of Making Up"</a></a>. <br />
And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-70435631011611659572010-12-03T14:09:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:17:05.601-08:00How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On.<b>Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">"how to get my ex back when he's moved on"?</a>" Don't bother moping, because what you have lost does not mean <br />
you have lost it forever. Here are some quick and simple tips for learning how to <br />
get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears to <br />
be interested in associating with you.<br />
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1 - The first step to getting the man of your dreams back is finding a way to <br />
convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really, really does not want <br />
anything to do with you, then there are a number of options that you can employ <br />
from this point on.<br />
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2 - One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. <br />
Make a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you <br />
can be around him without creating any drama. Show him that you can joke around with <br />
him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the <br />
relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again.<br />
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3 - When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him but <br />
don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. You are going to want him to <br />
want you, but you're also going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot <br />
have you just yet. While playing games is not the best way to go, you do not want <br />
give an air of hard to get, making him more interested in the process. <br />
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4 - You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure <br />
that he knows you are available. You shouldn't completely rule out the concept of <br />
flirting and hanging out with friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy <br />
never hurt anyone - But it is important that you play it safe because if he doesn't <br />
think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.<br />
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5 - Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will <br />
under estimate you. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that <br />
you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on. <br />
If you act desperate, things won't work out the way you are intending them to, so <br />
avoid doing this at all costs.<br />
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6 - Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking <br />
at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong glance will let him <br />
know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" <br />
kind of way.<br />
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7 - Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These <br />
good memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. <br />
Don't bring up any bad memories, because it will only hurt his bad side, which will <br />
not do you any good.<br />
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These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial <br />
steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my <br />
original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my <br />
true love back.<br />
<br />
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called <blockquote><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">The Magic Of Making Up</a></blockquote>"The Magic Of <br />
Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more <br />
in love than ever.</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-46922777954294958802010-12-02T14:52:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:14:58.249-08:00How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space<b>Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly <br />
everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. <br />
There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, <br />
including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. <br />
Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your <br />
ex boyfriend needs more space.<br />
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- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of <br />
you - But clearly you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a little <br />
bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not <br />
your own.<br />
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- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may <br />
be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a <br />
minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, <br />
brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind <br />
him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your <br />
presence when he may actually want and need space.<br />
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- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes <br />
well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep <br />
in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with<br />
your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, <br />
you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in <br />
case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.<br />
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- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to <br />
take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or <br />
he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the other hand <br />
he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, <br />
then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship. <br />
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- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart <br />
up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the <br />
process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then <br />
it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other <br />
direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.<br />
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These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps <br />
I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. <br />
I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.<br />
<br />
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">The Magic Of Magic</a> <br />
And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-21444218214259682752010-11-30T03:27:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:14:32.820-08:00What Should I do To Get My Ex Back<b>When you break up with someone you love, you go through lots of painful emotions. You feel sad, depressed and hurt, and you miss them. “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a question you constantly ask yourself. <br />
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There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and even courses designed to answer the question, what should I do to get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a breakup. And common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship. <br />
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If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then follow this <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">Simple Advice</a>. You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone. <br />
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Don’t play games. This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. If you can make the other person think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel great. But it won’t feel great for long. <br />
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Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good feeling. And anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie. <br />
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Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous. While it does work now and then, other times it makes the breakup permanent because it backfires. <br />
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Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you back. Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway. You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late. <br />
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Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might. Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">" What Should I Do To Get My Ex Back"</a> shows that you’re ready to forgive that person. If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you’d be glad it was over. <br />
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Now, think about how you’ve been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time? Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.<br />
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“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss them. Then you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.<br />
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These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.<br />
<br />
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">" The Magic Of Making Up"</a>. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-88241649681488955042010-11-25T08:35:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:13:50.178-08:00How To Get Your Ex Back<b>THIS IS A MUST WATCH VIDEO , This is the guy who writes all the article for </b><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XofIY_Rg1aY"><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">The Magic Of Making Up</a></a>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-83493752943359979762010-11-25T07:24:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:13:05.672-08:00Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call<b>Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex<br />
feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh?...<br />
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get<br />
from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship<br />
back together.<br />
So I am going to answer..."How do I get<br />
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?" BUT...<br />
***********<br />
WARNING!<br />
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<a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">In the Magic Of Making Up</a>, I lay out a complete strategy.<br />
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may<br />
damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.<br />
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What NOT to Say!<br />
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER<br />
works. and worse...<br />
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.<br />
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd<br />
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."<br />
And the EMERGENCY-<br />
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."<br />
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?<br />
So, I won't go on and on...<br />
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest<br />
To Your Advantage<br />
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are<br />
*Curiosity & *Self Interest And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you<br />
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' So...<br />
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.<br />
In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."<br />
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. Now...<br />
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. But more importantly...<br />
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2nd WARNING!<br />
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the <a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">Magic of Making Up</a> System BEFORE you call.<br />
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more<br />
DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.<br />
Okay?<br />
What I am saying is...<br />
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Make sense? Have a PLAN!==><a href="http://da8belsgjsdy0f7dc4uanftx84.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG">Magic Of Making UP</a><br />
Rooting For You,<br />
T Dub</b>Dawn Hayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425497657541895750noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6079351916543791942.post-26972317024279981562010-11-24T14:02:00.001-08:002012-02-21T10:11:45.961-08:00What Can I do To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back<b>Most people find themselves asking "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back" <br />
following a breakup. They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything <br />
that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters <br />
and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back. <br />
<br />
This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never <br />
really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. Women become emotional and <br />
sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know <br />
what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it is only harmful <br />
to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.<br />
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The first main strategy to answer the question about <br />
"what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back" is to forget about the relationship <br />
for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, <br />
network, and forget about women in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding <br />
your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people. <br />
<br />
Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away <br />
from your ex and it will work wonders.<br />
<br />
The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to make <br />
gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of relationships. <br />
After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed <br />
with your ex. <br />
<br />
Do you still want to get back together with her? Or are you ready to move on? <br />
Act accordingly. If you still want to get back together with her, it might be time to <br />
figure out how she is feeling about you.<br />
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Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting your <br />
ex girlfriend back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not simply beg <br />
her to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be emotional. <br />
<br />
Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. <br />
If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as <br />
badly as you are missing her. Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and show <br />
her that you are doing fine without her. This will inspire her to really rethink things. <br />
<br />
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when <br />
it will become apparent. Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over <br />
analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out <br />
"what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back". Just take things slow and play <br />
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<br />
healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve <br />
<br />
wracking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, <br />
<br />
you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best <br />
<br />
step to take? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your <br />
<br />
ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the <br />
<br />
relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only <br />
<br />
are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also excellent methods for getting <br />
<br />
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1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well <br />
<br />
when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, <br />
<br />
clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. <br />
<br />
Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting <br />
<br />
strong and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.<br />
<br />
2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear <br />
<br />
counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is <br />
<br />
one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting <br />
<br />
your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let <br />
<br />
him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow <br />
<br />
your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.<br />
<br />
3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, <br />
<br />
or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a <br />
<br />
sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it <br />
<br />
may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when <br />
<br />
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4 - Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends <br />
<br />
and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment <br />
<br />
in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the <br />
<br />
opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your <br />
<br />
friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help <br />
<br />
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5 - Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your<br />
<br />
ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex<br />
<br />
remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your<br />
<br />
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